Social and Spiritual Openness
An aspect of the Haitian culture that stood out to us was their openness. One of the first things we were told in preparation for our time in the Haitian culture was that we should throw personal space out the window. More than just a higher comfort level when it comes to personal space, we experienced a higher level of social and spiritual openness. Now, I'm no expert in Haitian culture from visiting Port-Au-Prince for one week, and my general observations are going to be a result of my experience.
As foreigners, we wanted to try our best to follow the social norms of the culture. We were a bit concerned about how we were interacting with the Haitians we met on the street and the children at VBS. We wondered to ourselves, what does a Haitian man think if an American woman starts a conversation with him? What does a parent of a child think if their child is sitting on a strange American's lap? So we asked one of our translators when it is appropriate to talk to someone and when it is not. His response clarified much of the Haitian culture in our minds. He said that you can go up and talk to anyone at any time! It doesn't matter if you are a man talking to a 3 year old girl, or a woman speaking with a single man, it is socially acceptable and people do not read into the interaction (as we in the U.S. probably would). In comparison to our American culture, the Haitians are much more comfortable in conversation with each other, even with strangers.
Not only do the Haitians have an openness when it comes to social interactions, they also have an openness about their spirituality. It was very common to see buses, tap-taps (pick up trucks used for transportation), and signs that were blatantly God-focused. "Thank You Jesus", "Merci Jesus", and other simple praises were all around us. Could you imagine the fuss people would have in the states if people plastered their praises to God on their vehicles? By walking the streets, you would certainly think that Haiti is a "Christian Nation" with all the praises and scripture references.
When we talked to people on the streets about God, EVERYONE engaged in conversation with us and was very quick to have a spiritual conversation. People were very open to sharing their faith in God, as well as personal prayer request with complete strangers.